Love: The Wrong People
After years of experiences and hardships in relationships, I have come to notice a pattern regarding more than one thing. However, on this particular thing, I notice that the right people to love me will never be narcissists. This is common sense, of course, but it is not always noticeable about a person until you have accurately identified that the person just might be a narcissist.
It is also pretty much a guarantee that narcissists are not the right people to love me because narcissists do not love. Also, the right people to love me will also not be found in the accompaniment of narcissists. Those that accompany narcissists include any enablers, sympathizers, or flying monkeys of narcissists.
Although these people might have feigned love for me, they do not really love me at all. As extensions of narcissists they would often mirror the behaviors of narcissists too. So, if narcissists were devaluing me or discarding me, so were the extensions of narcissists. So, in essence, these were not the right people to love me.
These people had no regard for me or my life. They had no regard for my love either. They did not understand my love, and if they claimed that they did, it was always that pseudo-type of love bombing kind of love. In fact, I would even go as far as to say they did not comprehend the concept of love at all on any level. For sure narcissists do not.
Narcissists and those that conform to the support for narcissists will never be the right people to love me. They will always be the wrong people.
My Voice Unchained 