Why You’re Targeted, What You Carry, and How to Protect It
There are people in this world who walk with natural spiritual insight — they don’t just see what’s in front of them; they discern what’s beneath it. They sense energy before words are spoken. They notice patterns, shifts, motives. They read the room — and sometimes, the soul.
These people are often called seers.
And when a seer is placed inside a narcissistic system — whether that’s a workplace, a family, a religious structure, or a leadership team — the tension is immediate and unrelenting.
Not because the seer is wrong.
But because the seer sees what others work hard to hide.
Who Is the Seer?
The seer is the one who:
- Asks the uncomfortable but necessary questions
- Senses what’s unspoken in a room
- Notices patterns before others even realize they exist
- Exposes inefficiencies, dysfunction, or dishonesty without trying
- Discerns people’s motives, energies, and spiritual postures
- Operates in truth — even when it costs them
Seers aren’t always loud. In fact, many are quiet observers.
But when they speak, systems tremble.
What Is a Narcissistic System?
A narcissistic system is any group dynamic — workplace, family, organization — where power is maintained through:
- Image over integrity
- Control over collaboration
- Gaslighting over accountability
- Performative kindness over authentic connection
- Silent competition over genuine support
In these systems, truth is inconvenient.
Discernment is dangerous.
And a seer is an immediate threat.
What Happens to the Seer in a Narcissistic System?
1. You Become a Mirror — and They Hate What They See
Seers don’t reflect flattery — they reflect reality.
And narcissistic systems depend on illusion.
So when a seer walks in, carrying light and truth, they feel exposed — and the attack begins.
2. You’re Isolated or Triangulated
People stop inviting you to meetings.
They suddenly “forget” to forward you emails.
They pull others into conversations about you, not with you.
You’re left alone — not because you’re unkind, but because they fear what you might uncover if you’re too close for too long.
3. Your Strength Is Misinterpreted as Threat
Your clarity becomes “arrogance.”
Your calm becomes “coldness.”
Your boundaries become “disrespect.”
Your questions become “complaints.”
You don’t even have to raise your voice. You simply exist differently. And that’s threatening.
4. They Try to Discredit You — Silently
They talk about you when you’re not in the room.
They plant seeds of doubt in others’ minds.
They mock your tone, your ideas, your process — subtly.
All while smiling in your face.
But you see it. And that’s what bothers them most.
5. You’re Baited — Constantly
They try to draw you into casual conversations, gossip, offhanded comments — anything that gives them intel. Anything that pulls you into reaction. And when you don’t engage?
They try harder.
They can’t stand that you don’t need their validation to remain centered.
What the Seer Can Do to Stay Spiritually and Emotionally Safe
1. Choose Silence as Strategy, Not Surrender
You don’t owe explanations to people who twist your words.
Your silence is not weakness. It’s a wall. A sacred veil. A shield.
Sometimes, your silence is the loudest sermon in the room.
2. Anchor Yourself in Purpose, Not Praise
Narcissistic systems thrive on performance and approval.
But you weren’t sent to be liked — you were sent to see.
Don’t lose your purpose in the pursuit of peace.
You carry truth. Stay rooted in it.
3. Keep Your Inner Circle Small and Spirit-Led
Not everyone who smiles is safe.
Not everyone who asks “how are you?” deserves an answer.
Discretion is holy. Let God show you who is truly aligned.
4. Use Discernment to Exit, Not Just to Endure
Not every assignment is lifelong.
Sometimes your job is simply to observe, document, and exit cleanly.
Ask God daily: “Am I still assigned here?”
And when the answer is no — walk away with your dignity intact.
5. Create Emotional Distance Without Losing Compassion
Stay kind. Stay grounded.
But don’t hand them your heart.
Don’t internalize their projections.
You’re not the problem — you’re just the mirror.
🪞 Final Word to the Seer
If you’re the seer in a narcissistic system, you will be misunderstood.
You will be isolated.
You will be antagonized, mimicked, monitored, and dismissed.
But here’s the truth:
You are not there by accident.
You were sent.
Not to fix it — but to see it.
And when the time comes, to speak, document, or walk away — in peace, not pieces.
You are not too sensitive.
You are not too intense.
You are not imagining it.
You are a spiritual instrument placed in a system that fears its own reflection.
And that reflection… is you.
My Voice Unchained 