I have reached 100 days of no contact with my entire family, my bloodline, and every connection tied to them. I do not say that
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The Silence After the Storm: When Healing Finally Has Room to Begin
For the first time in what feels like forever, I am in a different place. I do not even know exactly what to call it.
Day 53: Standing in the Life That Comes After
Today is Day 53 of being no contact with my entire bloodline. When I think about where I am now, I realize that not much
My Voice Is Unchained, But the Chains Still Hurt
The Silence After the Battle I thought freedom would feel different. I thought that after all these years of fighting for my own autonomy, after
Day 33: Freedom Still Hurts
Yesterday reminded me that healing isn’t always quiet. Someone I hadn’t seen in decades showed up at my door on behalf of my father. For
Day 29: Taking Myself Out of Their Story
It has been exactly 29 days since I closed the door. 29 days since I walked away from my entire bloodline and every single associate