I’ve been in my current role for about seven months, and despite minimal training, I’ve managed to perform above expectations by teaching myself the system.
Tag: narcissistic abuse
The Limits of Grey Rocking: When Workplace “Invites” Are Really Performances
Grey rocking — keeping interactions flat, neutral, and drama-free — is a survival strategy in toxic environments. It works well when the goal is to
When Lunch Isn’t About Lunch: The Hidden Power Plays of Workplace Cliques
The Hidden Power Plays of Workplace Cliques In toxic workplaces, even something as simple as a lunch invitation can become a performance. On the surface,
Breadcrumbs and Brick Walls: How Narcissistic Managers Sabotage Support
One of the most exhausting experiences of working under a narcissistic manager is how they handle support. Or rather — how they don’t. On paper,
Do Bullies Ever Give Up?
When Manipulation Meets Stillness One of the questions I’ve asked myself many times is this: Do bullies and manipulators ever actually give up – or
Why Manipulators Ignore Your Time Boundaries
Time is one of the most valuable resources we have, and yet manipulators are notorious for ignoring it. When they bulldoze past your limits, it’s
My Voice Unchained 